Self-Determined Woman LIVE
Create a Life That is Unmistakably Yours
Stop waiting for permission. Start living with intention.
You've done the reflecting, the reading, maybe the therapy. You can name your values and picture the woman who lives the dream you have.
And still, most days your calendar, your habits, and your closet belong to who you used to be.
Self-Determined Woman LIVE is a two-day, in-person experience for women who are ready for their life to match the work they've done on the inside. It’s time to fully move to the next level.
Start 2027 YOUR way.
January 15-16, 2027
Who is a Self-Determined Woman?
You might find yourself wondering 'who is a Self-Determined Woman?'
This term came to me from an article a friend sent me about single women who don't have children and how they have become self-determined. The more we talked about it the more I realized this is what so many of us, single, married, mothers, childless...are. And yet we allow ourselves to get caught up in the small compromises of life only to discover we are way off course.
A Self-Determined woman...
Knows herself, chooses herself, owns her evolution, shows up as herself, takes responsibility for her life.
She knows life is not rose-coloured, yet she chooses to see the gains even in the heartbreaking moments of life.
To bring this in line with the All Set Style values:
Courage → choosing yourself even when it feels uncomfortable.
Curiosity → continuing to discover yourself rather than assuming you already know who you are.
Authenticity → bringing your choices into alignment with who you actually are.
Ultimately, she has had success and she has a picture in her mind of what she really wants her life to look like. Through years of small compromises that have compounded over time, she isn't sure how to get from here to there, yet she knows that's where she wants to be.
Let's get there.
~Shelby
You're ready if...
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You've said "once things calm down"
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You can explain your goals clearly and still haven't taken the first step
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You've outgrown a role, a routine, or a wardrobe and haven't replaced it yet
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You spend more energy supporting everyone else's plans than your own
Imagine...
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Waking up on a Monday and know what you're doing with your week is moving you toward your vision.
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Saying your goal out loud and it sounds like a plan instead of a wish.
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Getting dressed in under ten minutes, in something that feels like the woman you are now.
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You walk into a room with confidence, knowing that's where you belong.
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You don't say "once things settle down" anymore, because you've started.
“Shelby has a way of helping you see yourself more clearly. She creates the space to really think about who you are now, what matters to you, how you want to show up in your life, and whether the choices you’re making actually reflect that.
Working with her helped me recognize some of the ways I had changed and evolved — and gave me permission to let go of things that no longer felt like me. Yes, that included my closet, but it went much deeper than that.
Shelby brings together self-awareness, intention and personal style in a way that feels practical, thoughtful and incredibly personal. She doesn’t tell you who you should be. She helps you get clearer about who you already are and gives you the confidence to show up as her.
If you’re at a point where you know you’ve grown or changed, but parts of your life haven’t quite caught up yet, spending two days with Shelby is a pretty powerful way to start closing that gap.”
Lissa Daub, Mak & Co.
FAQs
Who is this for?
The woman ready to step fully into her self-determined era. The one who wants what she wants and is ready to take ideas to action.
Where is it?
Edmonton, AB. The venue will be shared with all registered attendees as soon as it's confirmed.
What are the hours?
9:00 am to 5:00 pm on January 15 and 16, 2027. Lunch is included each day.
What's the difference between The Experience and The Inner Circle?
The Inner Circle includes everything in The Experience, plus an evening gathering on January 14 with dinner and drinks, a curated gift bag, and Inner Circle seating. There are only 5 spots.
Is there a refund policy?
There are no refunds. If you can't attend after purchasing, you can transfer your ticket to another person or a future event. Reach out and let us know.
Is there a payment plan option?
Yes. Email shelby@allsetstyle.com to arrange.
What You'll Leave With
Focus
A vision of the woman you're becoming and a written aim for where you're going
Your Plan
Small-step habits to start living it, so change feels doable instead of overwhelming
Deep Self-Awareness
A renewed sense of self that feels empowering, authentic, and yours
Presence People See
An image that matches who you're becoming, so you communicate it before you speak
Self-Determined Woman LIVE Experience
Day One
Own Your Past. Own Your Future.
Understand what has shaped you, release what no longer fits, and define where you're going and who you need to be to get there.
Day Two
Own You Present.
Turn your aim into action, step into how you show up, and leave with your first steps already in motion.
